Getting your wife riled up can seem pretty puzzling, but there is plenty you can do to make sure your wife is ready when you are. When it comes to how to make your wife horny, it really all starts with what turns her on personally, and different women will have completely different things that turn them on. To figure out what your wife likes, open up comfortable lines of communication, or try different things to see how her body reacts.
One thing you can try, which can be done anywhere and at any time, doesn’t have to involve any touching at all. For early foreplay that happens even hours before sex, simply stare her in the eyes. Don’t stare at her chest, or look her up and down, but create a line of intimacy by looking deep into her eyes either while touching her or simply having conversation. Such a simple little thing can be incredibly powerful, and make her weak at the knees with only a simple effort on your part.
If you’re apart for the day but you still want to get your wife horny early on, send her a little message or an email that tells her just what you’re thinking about, or what you love about her. While she’s at work or away, this little reminder can put her mind on the right track, and allow her imagination to run wild with thoughts of what will happen when you’re both back together again. Texts without photos typically have the best impact in a “less is more” sort of way, so drop a few words to her and sit back knowing you’re teasing her in all the right ways. Additionally, this is a great way to build up suspense for activities to come later.
Now that we have a method without touching, and a method that works while you’re apart, let’s get to something you can do while you’re together and involves a little physicality. Massage can be a wonderful way to relax her, make her horny, and build a closer connection all at once. As you’re rubbing her down, focus on her erogenous zones and make sure to tell her all about the parts you love on her most. Telling her she is beautiful as she feels your touch and your connection building will drive her wild to get to the main event!