YouTube’s famous sexpert and “the Headmistress of Pleasure”, as seen in Women’s Health Magazine, Layla Martin shares 3 unusual foreplay techniques. Layla has studied sexuality at Stanford University as well as in Asia with Tantric masters. She has been featured on Huffington Post, CBS, Playboy, etc. If you’d like to know more about her, her books and courses, check out her website. And, now let’s talk about the foreplay warmups.
1. The Setup
You and your partner sit across from each other. Imagine you have a bubble around you. Face each other, and take turns tossing out everything that you don’t want. For example, you discard your stressful thoughts of the day, your expectations, your insecurities.
You pretty much strip yourself of the thoughts that do not serve you and hinder you from being truly present with your partner. You let go of the negative energy to create space for the positive to enter.
Afterwards, you call in what you do want. For example, you pull in the energy of passion and fire; you pull in the connectedness with your body; you pull in freedom and wildness.
2. Gratitude Love Eyegazing
This one is specifically good, if you have been struggling or have been distant from each other. It might sound cheesy at first, but give it a try, and you’ll see for yourself how it really helps you bond with your partner.
Look into each other’s eyes in silence for around one or two minutes. When you feel the time is right, start saying what you are grateful for about one another. Take turns, and then switch and say what you love about one another.
3. Soul Breathing
Find a comfortable position where your mouth is next to your partner’s ear. You can do this by having her sit on your lap or having her straddle you. Then, you are going to take slow, deep breaths together. Turn on some slow, sensual music, and breathe together for the duration of the track.
Keep experimenting, my friends, and until next time!