YouTube’s famous sexpert and “the Headmistress of Pleasure” as seen in Women’s Health Magazine Layla Martin talks about cervical orgasms. Layla has studied sexuality at Stanford University and in the jungles of Asia with Tantric masters, so her knowledge on the subject is vast and noteworthy. She has been featured on the Huffington Post, CBS, Playboy, etc. Are you convinced already to keep on reading? Alright, let’s talk cervical orgasms now.
Yes, they ARE possible, and yes, EVERY woman can have it. So, don’t worry, if you or your woman is unable to have one right now. Just follow the three easy steps mentioned in this video that help unlock the cervical orgasm potential.
Step #1. Slow Down.
Think of the cervix as the glands of her clitoris, but deep inside her vagina. So, going hard and fast during intercourse to stimulate her cervix is NOT the way to do it. Hard and fast can occasionally feel pleasurable, but note the word – occasionally. It’s important to mix things up.
Step #2. Thrust Properly.
Think of thrusting using your hips with slow circular movements so that the tip of your penis or dildo is making very steady, circular motions right on her cervix. Or, you can do very subtle in and out movements. In this instance, the penetration is like 1/10th of the normal speed. You can even hold your cock or a dildo right up against her cervix while gazing into her eyes. Holding her and allowing her to breathe can do a lot for unlocking the cervical orgasm.
Step #3. Relax, Relax, Relax…
If she has tension in her cervix and it gets bumped during sex, it will feel painful or uncomfortable. For most women to relax her cervix, they have to do the energy clearing. Using sound to let out wild noises, sometimes growl, sometimes sobs and tears from long, long ago. These steps are necessary to release what’s causing the underlying tension, and get to a state of openness and pleasure. Holding your woman through this process and letting her know how okay it is for her to let everything go is super important for this process.
Now that you know how to give your woman a cervical orgasm, go ahead and have fun with it! Until next time, my friends!