Michael Fiore and Cassidy Lyon of Digital Romance TV talk about how you can spice things up in your relationship and keep your partner interested in you until you sleep together. This might apply to those who do not wish to roll under the sheets on their first few dates, or those who are in a long-distance relationship.
For starters, let’s establish that mental stimulation has a lot to do with sex. So, what can you do to entice your partner and keep them interested in you? Dirty texting, teasing them with a skillful use of words. But, how do you really go about it? What are the things to write them to get their fire going?
Saying things like, “I can’t stop thinking about your…”, “I can’t wait to…”. Tell them the things you want to do to them and the things you want them to do to you. Be honest and open about your dirty thoughts. You don’t want to come off too intense, so make sure you ease into this slowly, and see how they respond. If they are engaging in your play, you can start amping it up a little.
You can also write little letters, e-mails, tease each other with photos or small videos. Snapchat is perfect for that. You want to build yourself up to it. It’s not really attractive for people when you throw yourself at them, unless you both are simply looking for a quick lay.
It’s about being coy to a certain degree… approaching this with innocent flirtatiousness and yet knowing what you are doing at all times. For tips and tricks on sexting, check out Adina Rivers’ video.
Have fun experimenting, my friends, and until next time!